Step 1

The jar you use must have a lid. You can use any type of jar, even a bottle, provided it has a lid that seals well.

Step 2

On the piece of paper, write the person's full name.

Step 3

Take a pinch of the herb you chose and sprinkle it on top of the paper. Bay leaf, Lavender and Cinnamon all have purifying and protective qualities.

Step 4

Fold the paper once towards you and put it inside the jar.

Step 5

Take a spoonful of honey and add it to the jar. Add another spoonful until it covers the paper entirely. Say the following spell:

Step 6

Seal the jar tightly. Place the pink candle on top of the lid and light it.

Step 7

Meditate upon the candle flame, visualizing the person sweetening their attitude toward you. Picture this person smiling, being kind, and paying attention to you.

Step 8

Never let candles burn unattended. If you leave the room, put out the candle and keep burning it once a week or whenever you feel like it. Once the candle is totally out, toss the remains of wax and keep the jar closed, stored in a dark place where nobody will touch it.